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I'm kinda bushed after clearing all that damn snow. I started with my driveway then thought, well you know I should to the sidewalk down to the corner cause the seniors from the seniors center like to go to Sobeys Mondays. So I plug along (yes even with a big blower it is work...push, get stuck, push again).

I see a guy a few houses down trying to dig out from 3 foot drifts so i set up the drift cutters and make quick work of his driveway. He stops me half way through and asks if he knows me. I said no. He stares at me till I am done then asks my name. I said.."It doesn't matter, Have a Merry Christmas." He offers to pay me..I asked him to pay it forward. I though everyone had seen the movie (Pay it Forward..awesome flick), but I guess not.

I told him he owes two strangers favours next time he sees them struggling with something..maybe a door or a stranded motorist. When you help them you tell them the same thing. They owe two strangers a favour. Eventually we all help one another and its like Christmas all year.

I felt so good about that i did the old widow lady next doors driveway (who hates me and calls the cops about my dogs a few times a year even though they have twice scared off intruders).She kept peering out the window at me...i was chuckling the whole time..she must have really been wondering what was going on.

Of course I got to my driveway and ran out of gas. The guy from down the street musta heard my blower sputtering and brought over a can of gasoline from his garage.

He filled up my tank and said...'No worries, this one doesn't count'.

Sometimes it takes a storm to bring people together, sometimes its just an idea.

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I'm kinda bushed after clearing all that damn snow. I started with my driveway then thought, well you know I should to the sidewalk down to the corner cause the seniors from the seniors center like to go to Sobeys Mondays. So I plug along (yes even with a big blower it is work...push, get stuck, push again).

I see a guy a few houses down trying to dig out from 3 foot drifts so i set up the drift cutters and make quick work of his driveway. He stops me half way through and asks if he knows me. I said no. He stares at me till I am done then asks my name. I said.."It doesn't matter, Have a Merry Christmas." He offers to pay me..I asked him to pay it forward. I though everyone had seen the movie (Pay it Forward..awesome flick), but I guess not.

I told him he owes two strangers favours next time he sees them struggling with something..maybe a door or a stranded motorist. When you help them you tell them the same thing. They owe two strangers a favour. Eventually we all help one another and its like Christmas all year.

I felt so good about that i did the old widow lady next doors driveway (who hates me and calls the cops about my dogs a few times a year even though they have twice scared off intruders).She kept peering out the window at me...i was chuckling the whole time..she must have really been wondering what was going on.

Of course I got to my driveway and ran out of gas. The guy from down the street musta heard my blower sputtering and brought over a can of gasoline from his garage.

He filled up my tank and said...'No worries, this one doesn't count'.

Sometimes it takes a storm to bring people together, sometimes its just an idea.

 

 

Rick, Awesome account... I have a grouchy neighbour as well that swears by doing everything by hand.. he has called the cops about my lawn mower and snow blower.Did you know noise bylaws start before 11pm?? in fact anyone can call any time of the day... as long as your disturbing their peace..that was until today... in spite of the me putting up with his 6 yes 6 years of his Bull... I still did his driveway.. and I did it with a smile.. not to be mean spirited but because his wife told me about his prostate cancer.... he is a proud fella and everything he does is manual...

 

Unfortunately I know he is not well.. but he is too proud to say so.. I hear it from his wife...

 

Even though he did not thank me.. the thumbs up I got from his wife who was sitting living room window was enough..

 

 

and I agree... Pay it forward...

 

PS... I owe a couple of favours.. after a neighbour fixed my carb tonight...

 

G

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Rick, Awesome account... I have a grouchy neighbour as well that swears by doing everything by hand.. he has called the cops about my lawn mower and snow blower.Did you know noise bylaws start before 11pm?? in fact anyone can call any time of the day... as long as your disturbing their peace..that was until today... in spite of the me putting up with his 6 yes 6 years of his Bull... I still did his driveway.. and I did it with a smile.. not to be mean spirited but because his wife told me about his prostate cancer.... he is a proud fella and everything he does is manual...

 

Unfortunately I know he is not well.. but he is too proud to say so.. I hear it from his wife...

 

Even though he did not thank me.. the thumbs up I got from his wife who was sitting living room window was enough..

and I agree... Pay it forward...

 

PS... I owe a couple of favours.. after a neighbour fixed my carb tonight...

 

G

 

 

Nice stories to read first thing Monday morning. Very kind gestures from both of you. Let's hope your neighbours take the advice and pay it forward as you said.

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Sometimes it takes a storm to bring people together, sometimes its just an idea.

 

We all saw that in Eastern Ontario the year of the Ice Storm. It is the 10th year anniversary of that storm this coming January.

 

I also helped out neighbours with my snowblower yesterday, felt good to say "No thanks , Have a Merry Xmas" when they offered money.

 

I just hope that somebody returns my mailbox if they find it, seems to have disapeared after the snowplow went by. Hope my Visa bill wasn't in there :lol::lol:

 

 

Good For you Rick.

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Sometimes it takes a storm to bring people together, sometimes its just an idea.

So true...the driveway that my neighbour and I share is pretty wide, probably 3 cars wide, but I just can't imagine only shovelling down the 'property line' which would just be a single car width on my side, leaving the other double width worth of snow there.

 

It's just so akward to not shovel the whole thing, expecially since I am fairly young and she is elderly, and I could use the exercise...

 

While I was just finishing up another neighbour came over to thank me for helping the elderly lady, he had a snowblower and finished off the walkway up to her front door which was great because I was pretty exhausted.

 

When I woke up this morning, my wife said that the street plow mess at the bottom of the driveway was already cleared out! must have been the neighbour with the snowblower :thumbsup_anim::canadian:

 

I only wish that people could be more like this ALL the time, but I guess to get there we all need to start with ourselves :Gonefishing:

 

Tony

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Good on you Rick! I have a neighbour who bought a new snowblower a few years back and he LOVES it when big snow comes. He was out at 8am yesterday and cleared snow until about 5pm. I talked to him afterwords and he did 11 driveways....some more than once and even part of the road so that when the plows came through we didn't have anything to shovel.

 

He didn't ask for a cent....we invited him in for coffee and Christmas cookies afterwards...that's all he really wants is food....

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Similar experience yesterday... haven't really seen my new neighbours much since the weather turned cold... got out early to tackle the mess, by hand and shovel... neighbours started coming out, shovels in hand and we, about 10 of us, cleared up all of our other neighbours walkways and driveways. We have a number of older folks around us and it did feel good to give them a hand... the first timeLOL... did have to tackle them again a couple of times, but everyone was clear by the time the snow stopped.

It's a great feeling of community that draws folks together at times like these.

Pay it forward!

HH

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Good on you Rick.........on another note I spent quite some time with the snowblower this morning in our driveway and all I could think of was the snow that i will be removing once I get to the store. When I arrived the front walk was already cleared by one of our customers that comes in to chat in the mornings. I was relieved to see it done and could not thank him enough.

 

Kind of funny I must be getting older when the snow removal starts to bother me and having fallen 3 times in the past week and a half has not helped any.

 

Regards,

Sam

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