Tarzan's Jane Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Hi everyone, I would like to hold my Pops up and into your thoughts. He is so ill with stage 3 lung cancer. He finished 33 radiation treatments the end of June. Had two more chemotherapy sessions left this month but the doctor cancelled them. I had taken two weeks off work to help with the driving to his radiation treatments, I thought it was working. I went to visit him last weekend and oh my God I can't get out of my mind what I saw on his back. Brutal, just brutal. He has a burn from the radiation the size of a dinner roll plate I'm guessing 8" in diameter. His skin is purple and red and peeling. I don't want to think that he isn't going to make it - but I need to get ready. I don't think he weighs 90 lbs....they are to start him on oxygen. His eyes are different....it's like life is leaving him. I was told last night that he will be going into care August 2, 2011. I am hopeful that he will come back home. He is only 68 years young. Please say a prayer for Gary. Thanks Nancy
Roy Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Sad to hear, Nancy. Prayers that he be as comfortable as possible.
ccmtcanada Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Very sorry to hear this news. I have been exactly where you are now and know how hard it is.
Tdel Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 I also have been through this with my mom. Our prayers are with you, Gary, and family. Tom.
ChrisK Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Its a tuff pill to swallow Nancy. Stay strong for him and no matter what happens life has a way of sorting things out. My thoughts and prayers will be with your dad and family.
Handlebarz Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Very sorry to here this news Nancy I hope he pulls through this our thoughts are heading Garys way.
The Urban Fisherman Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Thinking about your pops Nancy! Much love from my whole family!
ketchenany Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 I know what your are going through. I too lost a parent to cancer in March. No treatments were done at all, just kept her pain free for six weeks. My thoughts are with you. A
Tarzan's Jane Posted July 14, 2011 Author Report Posted July 14, 2011 Thanks so much everyone....it truly is a comfort knowing that others are praying for him.
irishfield Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 A tough road for sure Nancy, known all to well to me. I hope your father has better success than mine did. I've seen them stop chemo on a few patients here before the protocol was supposed to be done, in the last 8 months we've been at Sinai, and it was because their body couldn't handle it anymore. On 2 out of 3 of them the chemo had stopped any progression and or shrunk the tumors. I'm hoping your Pops is part of the same 66% !
Big Cliff Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Very sad to see anyone go through all of that and equally hard on the survivors. Our love and prayers are sent! Cliff & Sue
aplumma Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 I am sad to hear this and wish you both the strength you need in this trying time. Prayers sent Nancy... Art
spincast Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 positive thoughts and wishes for your Pop, you and your family. Its terribly hard when we see those who were so strong all our lives turn so frail so fast.
Shorty Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 my thoughts & prayers are with you & your family during these difficult times.
misfish Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 As always ,for any member or friend,our prayers are with you and your pop.
discophish Posted July 14, 2011 Report Posted July 14, 2011 Your dad is still young to stay strong. Keep strong for him as you know you will.
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