A sad anniversary

[crappieperchhunter]

My kids are 22 and 25 and still fumbling around with who they are and what they will become. Hell I could say the same for myself on a lot of days. But your son recognized his passion early and made it a reality. I have a ton of respect and admiration for such individuals.

 

I can feel your pride come through in every word and picture. Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with us in your beautiful tribute.

[ckrb2007]

A very sad anniversary post by a very proud father. You had to do what every parent dreads and that makes you just as tough as your son. Thanks for posting that awesome tribute, Lew!

[ccmtcanada]

I knew you had lost your son Lew, but didn't know how. I can hear the love and pride you have for him in your words. Thank you for sharing...

[Tdel]

I too remember when Lew and Gerritt both lost their son's.

 

Although the anniversary of what happened brings sad memories, I am sure the happiness of remembering the good times with them gives you great joy.

 

Tom

AKA: Spider2blue.

[mercman]

Thanks Lew, 9 years ago this past October. Time certainly has marched on...

 

 

G

 

I cant even begin to comprehend the pain of losing a child.i hope i never find out.

 

 

Paul

[bigbuck]

Lew, keep Jim in your heart and his memory goes on. His legacy is there for all to see in all the buildings he helped erect. Take care of your wife, daughter and yourself my friend.

[Rizzo]

Sadly I remember that day well also. I'm glad you posted some of the work he did, some fascinating jobs Jim was involved in. My question is, where in the world did he get the smile! That picture of Jim and Kirk in China is a great one, but we never see a smile like that from dad, must've inherited that one from mom.

[Twocoda]

Lew your pride of your son shines through from your font and pictures....my deepest condolences on this tragic anniversary...there isnt a day that goes by that i wish my son would choose a different profession but the discription you portrayed of Jim is identical to mine (now 25)...so i can relate on what were probably your biggest fears at the time...im truely sorry that they came to fruition...but like my son...they do what they love and lived to do.... and that is not a sad thing....sadness would have come from caging these free spirit men from being who they are in life...

Much respect to you and your wife on this day from a father who fears to a family that knows the only feeling a human isnt designed to feel

 

Gerrit - my condolences to you and yours aswell

 

Dave

[motion]

Thank-you for sharing this with us Lew. It is quite the tribute for your son. I will be looking at those buildings here in Toronto with a much different perspective now.

 

God bless.

[Dontcryformejanhrdina]

Wow, sorry to hear about your loss. You have a lot to be proud of. The things he helped build will still be standing long after we're gone and will be enjoyed by countless people. I can't imagine the courage it takes to do that kind of work every day, either. You certainly would never catch me up that high.

[lew]

Thanks once again folks, your thoughts mean alot to us.

[Rich Clemens]

I just can't imagine going through something like that Lew. Greate tribute to a fine man.

[Roy]

Lew, I hope you know that I don't need to post to this thread. It broke my heart for you Diane and Sherri when I read your post seven years ago. Still does.

[irishfield]

I'm in the same boat Roy.... I'd joined the board about 4 months before that dreadful day. Live on Lew through the memories!

[misfish]

Lew ,if, when, you can get past the time of hurt and can talk about yer lost ones, that make it so much easier.Not for some,but it can. I well still am at peace right now.

 

I too remember the day you posted, along with G.

 

My question is, where in the world did he get the smile!

 

It,s comments like this that make you say,,,,,,,,LMAO. Im sure it made you laugh aswell.

 

God bless.

[lew]

The hurting never stops Brian, but it does get easier over the years.

 

As for the jokes, their always welcome

Edited December 13, 2011 by lew

[vinnimon]

Our prayers and thoughts are with you Lew.

 

No matter how long its been, it is still hard to swallow. The memories will always be there to put a smile on your face.

[Leecher]

Lew,

 

I can only imagine what you have gone through loosing your only son and by what you have posted here, know that he has a special place in your heart.

 

My family and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers tonight

Jacques

[Pigeontroller]

Lew, no need to appologize for those kind of ramblings...As a Father of a 10 year old boy I can't imagine...

[Dutch]

Your son's legacy will be there through his work for generations.

 

So sorry for your loss.

[corvette1]

you did an awesome job lew it takes guts to do that kind of work you should be proud of him

[fishdawg]

thanks for sharing that fine tribute Lew, i think about you & Dianne around this time each year

[danc]

I will also add my thoughts to Gerritt on this post as well. I remember exactly where I was, exactly what job I was on, when both of these tragedies occured. My thoughts are with both of you guys.

[camillj]

Lew, I'll never forget that day. I was brand new to the board at the time ... man I can't believe its been seven years already - and so much more water under the bridge.

 

Great job on the tribute, I'm sure you think of him every single day. Gone but never forgotten.

 

Be well my friend.

[Sinker]

He will live on in your thoughts forever, Lew.

 

 

Great tribute.

 

 

S.