bigfish1965 Posted November 26, 2008 Report Posted November 26, 2008 First, let me thank you from bottom of my heart. I never once thought I would find myself in this position. I went for a visit yesterday and there is no improvement, but it is not getting worse.... For those that do not know me well, several years ago I had testicular cancer which had spread. I had intense radiation therapy treatment as well as a removal on the testicle. (Insert one-ball joke here) It was known that the radiation was risky but without it there was not any guaranty that the spread could be contained. For several years I was fine. Beginning a year and a bit ago a few of the complications arose resulting in my loss of my gall bladder. No biggie really. Then in the spring I started having some rather serious 'discomfort' in my remaining teste and rapid weight loss. A first test showed only a cyst on the epididymis which is not terribly rare for someone my age. However the pain intensified and since I had a past history with cancer, I got in right away for more tests. They found a hydrocele which is absolutely the worst pain you can imagine. It was hoped the problem would clear up on its own since they were reluctant to operate on someone with only one teste. However, in the mean time another cyst formed and an 'unknown mass' also appeared. Needless to say, I get to sit on a bag of ice each night which is about as much fun as it sounds. The pain and other meds keep me tired or asleep for alot of the day which is why I was pretty much incognito all summer. Haven't been fishing since lakair and miss it terribly. So it was decided that surgery to repair the damage was the only option. Luckily one of the foremost urological surgeons in the country is in the area...Dr Ian Brown. We are meeting on the 11th to make a final decision...but I am opting for a repair rather than a removal..for obvious reasons. Apparently I will experience 'significant discomfort' afterwards. Thats doctor speak for 'gonna hurt like a bugger'. My employer has been very good about extra time off even though I exhausted sick benefits ages ago. So with the divorce, dog surgery last winter and now this, my finances were destroyed. It is hard to watch your life savings disappear so fast. I appreciate what you guys are doing and the PM's and emails of support. I will eventually overcome this and come back to stir up more trouble. Just try not to break anything while I am gone, huh? Hoping to get a pretty nurse out of the deal to change my dressings....wish me luck. You guys are the best, Time for a happy pill Rick
Fisherman Posted November 26, 2008 Report Posted November 26, 2008 Wishing you a whole lot more than luck Rick and hope she's a 10(the nurse withh warm fingers). I'm sure the rest of the board gives overwhelming support.
joefish Posted November 26, 2008 Report Posted November 26, 2008 Good luck and wishes Richard, and dont forget I'm just up the hill from you if you need anything!...Joe
Photoz Posted November 26, 2008 Report Posted November 26, 2008 Geeze, that's a REALLY tough spot to be in. As a 3 time cancer survivor, (lost half my colon, got my prostate fried) and am still here. The survival secret . . . . good caring doctors . . . . good caring friends and NEVER lose your sense of humour. Keep us informed, as best you can . . . . you've supported every good cause we've had on this board . . . . now it's the board's turn to support you.
misfish Posted November 26, 2008 Report Posted November 26, 2008 Time for a happy pill Hey dont be greedy,share will ya. Thanks for the update Rick. All will be well. Thoughts and prayers are with ya bud.
Rich Clemens Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 My prayers go out to you Rick. All the best my friend.
Leecher Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Rick, never had a chance to chat with you but hang in there.... you'll get through it My thoughts and prayers are with you my friend Leechman aka Jacques
BeRad3000 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 You'll pull through, and there will be many more fish to catch.
tinbanger Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 you have many good friends ,some that you haven't even met yet ! hang in the thier. dave (Tinbanger)
silvio Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Hope you get better Rick I am sure everything wiill be ok. Keep us updated please.
pigeonfisher Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 DUDE...Sounds like a tough stretch. May your Karma come back and bite you, you have always (as far as I know) done well by others. You're in my thoughts, Rick.
douG Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 I get to fish with Richard every June at Lakair. He is sorta like one of our natural resources that we need to preserve, like The Common Loon
ccmtcanada Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Hey Rick...keep a positive attitude through all this and I'm sure everything will turn out fine. Thanks for letting us help you out here...you've done so much for each and every one of us here on the board. Carole and I are thinking of you during these times. Hope to fish with you at Lakair next June...I have lots to learn from you about jigging for walleye and finding pike on that lake!!!
holdfast Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 I wish you luck and I thank-you for your support for this Board. I hope you get to go fishing soon. If you ever are near Sask it would be my pleasure to show you around. Thanks Rick
mistyriver1 Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 So sorry to hear this Rick. Life can throw up some tough challenges but it's what makes us stronger. My family's thoughts are with you. Jim
Marko Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Gotta keep your head up, looks like you are surrounded by good people and good friends who care deeply about you. When everything is said and done i am sure you`ll come out on the top. Best of luck !!
JohnF Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Just in case happy endings really matter to you, Rick - My wife got a really nasty prognosis from the docs a few years ago. But she did the surgery (which turned out to be the easy part she says), did the chemo (but it wasn't working), did the chemo again (new better drugs that cost an obscene amount of money) and now she's doing great, at least so says her oncologist. The treatments and surgery really suck, but the alternatives suck even more, and once it's all behind you - well, it's behind you, and that's a good thing. Keep the faith, dude. JF
lew Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 All the best bud, were with ya !! If you wanna get slimed at Lakair in June, I've got a seat for you. And I don't mean those little snot rockets either
tnt Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Hey Rick, I've been away for a while and didn't know about all the tough times you've been going through. Stay positive, everything will work out in the end......it could be worse right. I'm heading home in December, had enough of Alberta for now.....we'll have to get out fishing when I'm home and you're all healed up.
TennesseeGuy Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Fight it hard Rick. Listen to those guys who have spent years in doctor school. Best to you.
Joey Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Geez, I feel for ya Rick. I hope it all turns out well and you have a full recovery. My thoughts are with you bud and try to keep us updated as best you can. Joey
Rob Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Hope all goes well Rick, persevere and all will be better in the end. Our thoughts are with you. Rob C
limeyangler Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 men can be nurses too right? wishing you a speedy recovery rick, Best wishes Simon
trapshooter Posted November 27, 2008 Report Posted November 27, 2008 Good luck Rick. You can get through this for sure.
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