misfish Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 As my regular routine when I arrive home ,I grab a cold one and read the family emails,and today I am in shock and am lost. For those that remember my thread about my grandfather passing,well it seems the next one to feel the wrath is the one that took care of him for so many years.My aunt, whom I just celibrated with and my grandfather before his passing for or birthdays in April ,has been told she has Larynx Cancer.I believe in the powers above and that there is a god,but why would this happen to a women that gave her life to care for her father for so long, be given this burden. It seems when things are getting on the right track,there is always something that tries to take you down again,and again. I feel more for my pop because this is his sister,only sister, and losing his pop and now having to deal with this,I just dont know how to deal with it.It,s becoming very frustating and scary. By god I am so mad right now and Im not afraid to say, that tears are running down my face as I write this,but what in the name of the ol mighty above,does one have to do to.,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, You smoke, they say you,ll get cancer,you drink you,ll get liver cancer,you BBQ you,ll get cancer,is there anything in the world we cant do so we dont get CANCER???????????????????????????????????????????? I am going to do my darndest to catch pounds for the cast for cure this year. I have already given my money to the cause and the wife aswell,and even with that I know it,s not enough,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, The wifes not home yet and she is not going to like the news as she is already going through this with her sister,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I really have asked for nothing, but your prayers really would be helpful here.It seems to work for others from the board. He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High, who abides in the shadow of the Almighty, will say to the Lord, My refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
douG Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 Whew. Me too, Brian, the tears that is. Prayers? You got em. Best to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mistyriver1 Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 I'm so sorry to hear this Brian. I know how you feel, as many know on this board (including you) I lost my mother to pancreatic cancer in 04 and my father to lung cancer in 05. There are way to many stories like this..... My best to you and your family. Jim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lew Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 (edited) Really sorry to hear about this Brian and my thoughts and best wishes go out to your aunt and all those who love her. As you know, I just lost my brother to cancer a few weeks ago, so I know just how your feeling bud. It'll be a wonderful day when they ever come up with a cure for this horrible disease. Edited June 13, 2007 by lew Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Terry Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 sorry to Hear that Brian seems everyone everywhere is touched by some close to them having cancer Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rickster Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 My thoughts and best wishes are with you Brian I lost a brother to cancer nearly seven years ago and now have a cousin with it. My best to you and your family at this difficult time Rick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bly Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 Brain...there are no words.....our prayers are with you and your family...... bly and Cliff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BryonG Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 My Mom is a 23 year SURVIVER of Larynx cancer. Keep the Faith!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lookinforwalleye Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 I share your feelings we have all had dealings with cancer, I lost my Mother to cancer a few years ago and a couple of dear friends and relatives. My prayers are with your Aunt for a full recovery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
motv8tr Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 I'm sorry to hear this Brian, but keep the faih, this may be one they can beat. Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deano Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 My prayers go out to you. That's why I always say ENJOY, because it can all be taken away in a heartbeat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest kitchener boy Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 so sorry brian. i had cancer 10 years ago in my mouth. it was friends and family that kept me going. tell her to be strong and believe. dave Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattitude Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 My thought's are with you and your family brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lowerunit Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Bryan. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pameladallaire Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 I'm so sorry to hear about your aunt. I told my friend just an hour ago to live her life to the fullest today, because if you plan to have fun later, later never comes. I take care of my mother, by choice, and still live a wonderful life thank goodness. I know I won't be caring for her forever. There are no guarantees in life. I wake up every morning thanking the almighty that I have another day to enjoy. Having friends on the internet helps too. Pam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misfish Posted June 13, 2007 Author Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 Life for some people is a tough enviro. For others, they seem to just coast along with nary a worry, and everything seems to go their way, while others, have to negotiate pain and suffering, worry, health matters, financial woes, etc on a daily basis, with apparently no end in sight Amen to that TY Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misfish Posted June 13, 2007 Author Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 Thanks all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JFR Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 Brian I am saddened by the news you just passed to us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. John Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jigatollah Posted June 13, 2007 Report Share Posted June 13, 2007 Sorry to hear about this Brian. It's tough to grasp what has happened and the shock you must feel. Hang in there bud. Everyone is pulling for you and the family. Tony. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steve_paul Posted June 14, 2007 Report Share Posted June 14, 2007 Brian, very sorry to hear the bad news. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daplumma Posted June 14, 2007 Report Share Posted June 14, 2007 Sorry about the nes Bian..Arm yourself with all the information availble and go from there.Not all cancer is fatal so learn what you can.Prayers are sent from down here. Joe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dustink Posted June 14, 2007 Report Share Posted June 14, 2007 Prayer sent dude! dk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joey Posted June 14, 2007 Report Share Posted June 14, 2007 Wow B, I just can believe this is happening to your family again. I don't know the answer either and find it unfair how some people get cancer and never smoke, some people have liver problems and don't drink and the list goes on and on. They say everything happens for a reason and that God has a purpose for everyone, but some times it just doesn't make any sense. We're told to believe and put our trust in God, and I guess that is what we have to do. We must be needed in heaven for a reason, so I can only hope that there is a reason for this to be happening to your family. You and your family are in our thoughts B. Joey & Paul Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bpsbassman Posted June 14, 2007 Report Share Posted June 14, 2007 My prayers are with your Aunt, Brian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted June 14, 2007 Report Share Posted June 14, 2007 Every night as I close my eyes I will send a silent prayer to you and your family. Your Aunt has a long road ahead of her, although from the sounds of it she has many loving people around her for a shoulder to cry on and support when she will need it the most. Sometimes that alone can cure a body and heal a soul. Jen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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