I am a 57 year old man, born on May the 8th, 1990. How can this be possible you ask? well, here goes.
Tomorrow marks the aniversary on my 23rd year of sobriety.I was, in effect, born on that day, largely thanks to the men and women of Alcoholics Anonymous. On May 8, 1990, i picked up the phone, called A.A. central, and begged for help. Within 45 minutes,a knock at my door signaled a changing day in my life. I opened the door and was greeted by 2 very sober members of A.A. who took me to my first meeting, where i was surrounded by people who knew exactly how i felt. For the first time ever, i was not alone.
I'd like to say that life has been smooth and even since that day, but life has twists and turns that we can never predict. Parents die,friends change, relationships rise and fall.....Last year alone, i lost my Mom to Alzheimers, and my wife of 20 years to another man.If i had looked at the rest of my life as a whole, i would have gotten wasted.
But, I was taught how to live my life, One Day at a Time, and take myself apart, and put myself back together again, to become the man i was destined to be.
I start this new year of my life, a very happy man. I am sober, healthy, and recently,smoke free. At 57, i have met my soulmate too.You know that crazy, silly, feeling that you got when you kissed your first girl or boy? Well, i never had that feeling till January this year.We are buying a house together in June, and i cant imagine spending what life i have left, with antone else.
Anyways, i just wanted to mention this once again, as i do every year. For me, the more people i tell i am a recovering alcoholic, the stronger my sobriety gets.For me, being a recovering alcoholic, gives me a sense of pride, and reinforces my will to stay sober.
The last time i posted my story, i inspired 2 members to join AA and as far as i know, they are still sober today.
Thanks for listening once again, be well, all of you, and thanks for all of your support.
Paul