Hi Ryan....here's a woman's perspective...cuz we do end up doing a lot of work too.
Built our home with the help of family and friends....a fair size to boot...just over 4000 sq ft. I swear to God there are still tiny nail holes in the window framing that still need to be filled. Went into the ground April 1993 and moved in November 1993. Wasn't completely done by any means and there is still a section in the basement where the ceiling remains unfinished and this was just to cut back on the property taxes.
Would I do it again....heck ya, if I was younger. lol And a much smaller home. (keep the laundry room on the main floor - definite bonus), and have a decent size linen closet. Actually the bigger the closets the better. (I don't miss the stairs)
It's a lot of work, but it also gives great satisfaction, pride and you know exactly what you've got.
Anyhow....all the best to you which ever way you decide to go.
Have fun....the best part was designing it. I never did get the hydraulics I wanted.