Married Men & Dating Sites

[Fishingfever]

Hi all,

 

my girlfriend and I were watching a documentary a few days ago. The program was on Singles Dating Sites. They talked about the importance of asking questions to people you meet, don't be so trusting, there are alotta fakes.

Men or women can pretend to be something theyre not. The program tracked these men down and tried to interview them. They were on tv for everyone to see. They posted their pictures and profiles from different dating sites they were on. Some duped women for money,etc.

This hit home for my girlfriend. She had been on an online dating site for SINGLES before we met. She had met some nice guys that were honest and caring individuals. She did date a guy who posed as a single dad. He told her where he worked all about his kids,etc. She found he forgot to mention that he was married,lol. We are on a family website and saw he had posted on a forum, where he talked about him and his wife and made it sound like he was a real family guy. He talked about how he had found the ultimate woman,lol. (If he did why is he hunting for other women) If youre unhappy in your marriage leave or tell the people your dating just that. We both feel it's good that programs do educate people on whats happening out there, it makes people more aware.

 

Moral of this post:

 

Take responsibily when being online.

If someone can not give out their home address or home phone#

If they can only call you in the morning or during work hours

They can't get together on weekends or evenings

 

These are red flags that should tell you somethings not right no matter what excuses they come up with!

[Terry]

I think the same can be said for every time you deal with people on the internet...

 

 

 

I mean I chatted with a bunch of people that claimed to be great/good or at lest fishermen

 

 

went on a trip with about 30 of them to BOQ 2007 and only a handful of them caught fish....fishermen..LOL ..yeah right..don't believe anything you read on the internet....LOL

 

 

BOQ 2008

 

 

I am kidding....honest ...LOL

Edited December 6, 2007 by Terry

[irishfield]

Say what... does this mean I shouldn't have made the crack about my wife coming home early off of midnights and her sister hadn't left yet... in Grandman's assult thread?? LOL

[Terry]

No that one we believe.....we know you can multi task

[irishfield]

[Bly]

I think the same can be said for every time you deal with people on the internet...

I mean I chatted with a bunch of people that claimed to be great/good or at lest fishermen

went on a trip with about 30 of them to BOQ 2008 and only a handful of them caught fish....fishermen..LOL ..yeah right..don't believe anything you read on the internet....LOL

BOQ 2008

I am kidding....honest ...LOL

 

 

2008?? Darn! I have been duped out of a year!!! Gotta love the internet.....

[Fishingfever]

yeah, he claimed to be a fisherman too, LOL

[Terry]

fixed that problem...LOL

 

hey.....I am part of the didn't get a fish group.....lair on the internet type of guy

[JohnF]

2008?? Darn! I have been duped out of a year!!! Gotta love the internet.....

 

Worse yet, you married Cliff because he claimed to be a fisherman.

 

JF

[ccmtcanada]

Worse yet, you married Cliff because he claimed to be a fisherman.

 

JF

 

I never claimed to be a fisherman....I claimed to be a rock star....

 

Worked like a charm....LOL.

[Bly]

Worse yet, you married Cliff because he claimed to be a fisherman.

 

JF

 

This from the guy with no fishing reports

[JohnF]

This from the guy with no fishing reports

 

Yeah! My son says that a guitar is a chick magnet, even better than Mom's BMW convertible when you're seventeen. His guitar (actually a bass) seems to have served him well over the years. It has nothing to do, I'm sure, with him being 6'5 and looking like a young me (oops, I can't believe I just said that).

 

Real men don't need no steenkin' fish reports. They just need a guitar. The wimmen get all weak-kneed over that. The BMW is just icing on the cake. We used MG's and Austin Healeys in my day, and banjoes. I still have the banjo - long neck 5 string. Some day I fully intend to learn to play the durned thang.

 

JF

[bowshep]

Thats right. Nancy"s friends warned her about guys like me... l fooled them... lm just a man thats an idiot...lol

Peace Ken

[douG]

Got's my third guitar, a sliver flute, two kbds and a whole pantload of harmonicas. Cross style in the blues language is ok.

 

Also a two.5 octave vocal range.

 

Music? I can bring it.

 

Pms are gratefully received.

Edited December 7, 2007 by douG

[Tarzan's Jane]

Thats right. Nancy"s friends warned her about guys like me... l fooled them... lm just a man thats an idiot...lol

Peace Ken

 

aahhhhh...geeezzzzz....well..... read the thread "I just got charged with assault"... I know how to hurtis you good now.

 

True...internet dating can be tricky...but I did find love...with a fisherman for God sakes!!

[Greencoachdog]

They talked about the importance of asking questions to people you meet, don't be so trusting, there are alotta fakes.

Men or women can pretend to be something theyre not.

 

 

The hell you say?... really???... on the internet?

[Crazyhook]

you mean everyone on the internet is not who they say they are???

 

honestly, there are many people out there who like to scam people, you have to watch out on line or in the real world

[Fishingfever]

yep I agree. If your not happy with the one your with move on.