I think that most people are sorry that both dudes have to go through that "crap". The problem with trying to settle things on fishing forum is that most people don't come here for that kind of "crap". You're adults, settle your "crap" by PM, email, phone or better still, in person. You both still have your PM privileges and I'm quite sure you know each others phone numbers/personal addresses. Git 'er done. You'll both sleep better.