AYE CARUMBA......
The word has existed for many years.i have an Auntie Norman, who uses it on a regular basis, and i call 'her' that all the time, and 'she' loves it !!!! 'she' is one of the coolest 'guys' i know. I just got off the phone with 'her', and 'she' said that 99.9% of gays use the term as an endearment amongst themselves.So CRTC !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!whats the big deal ?????