IMHO if you really really want to quit you will, smoking cessation products on the whole do not have a very good success rate, the success rate of the patch is pretty low similar to a placebo infact.
Personally I think the stop smoking products including the one I used (Champix) are only as good as the willpower you put forth. So if you really do not want to have another smoke then don`t it`s all up to you!
I tried quitting at least 6-7 times before it really took hold and I have been smoke free now for about 14 months a combination of Champix and willpower did the trick, my Doctor getting fed up with me and tearing me a new helped a bit too!
Good luck!!!