I seem to get his point too
he asked a question and most people want to give him advise ..he appreciates the unsolicited advise..however it is not what he asked
if I ask the best driving directions to get to timbuctoo, he would hope to get some directions
while telling him how fast to drive and what oil to use may be helpful it isn't what he asked...I thought he was being quite gracious
but most times I see things slightly different then most