there are many ways to get music, bit torrents are one way but most often they are whole cds you are downloading
you can get youtube downloader and down load they right off youtube
if she has most of the songs she likes on cds you can put them in the cd player on your computer and save them on the puter, convert to mp3 then put them in the ipod folder, I think songs has in the ipod format to upload them on ipods ..someone will tell you about that
I am too cheap to buy the real deal , I buy made in china knock offs