I ordered a set of waterproof LEDs + the wireless controller as well, never got here. If you don't mind, could you let us know which vendor you used? (I wouldn't be surprised if it's the same Ebay guy I tried)
What's wrong with revenue generation if it comes from poachers and the like? With a nice stiff fine, you better believe there's a little 'education' happening.
You can refuse delivery by UPS/FedEx and negotiate lower brokerage fees. I do it all the time if the buyer won't lower the value of the package on the customs form and they won't ship USPS.