Some you can and some you can’t. Some you want to help the most are the ones you can’t help at all.
One of my best friends was born with a difficulty. He was adopted when he was very young. Most of the time he was good to hang out with. He liked fishing a lot. I took him all over fishing. We caught a ton of fish. I’m glad I could help him enjoy life. Sometimes People with troubles don’t last too long. His parents thanked me at his funeral.
I catch one for him every year.