I think the key phrase here is 'we dont know all the facts' It would be easy to start a topic in here by ranting about something that happened to me, that angered me, even if i deserved it, without telling the story 100% truthfully. We all do it, to some extent in our lives.Hide a bit of the truth, to get a bit of sympathy.
I dont think BM4 is telling us the complete story.He hasnt had much to say at all since posting this thread.Not calling him a liar either, so don't get crazy on me. Just sayin, he didnt give ALL of the facts we need to make a judgement on anything.
paul